Lust, Porn and Purity

Lust, Porn and Purity

Lust, porn, and purity.   Wow, what a few big topics we have here. Let me just start out by asking you something.. WHAT is your why for purity?  Because your definition of purity is an indicator on how your actions will play out within a relationship.  Purity is something that isn’t talked about within the church. Purity is “don’t have sex until you’re married” and you’ll get a gold star if you don’t go all [...]

WEEK ONE: Red Flags to Look For in Dating

WEEK ONE: Red Flags to Look For in Dating

Red flags. Yuck. Something in the past I would avoid noticing because well… he was cute, funny, and/or charming.. Maybe… it isn’t a red flag….I would tell myself. Dating is already hard in 2020. It is even harder when you are looking for someone who loves Jesus and is mature enough spiritually to be in a serious relationship. So if you’re like me and have often avoided red flags… I get it.  Most Christian bloggers/authors [...]

LET’S TALK RELATIONSHIPS: INTRODUCTION

LET’S TALK RELATIONSHIPS: INTRODUCTION

All of my life I have put so much value on relationships. I saw the significance and importance of healthy, Godly relationships and refused to settle for less than that. So, as a fourteen-year-old girl, I made a vow to wait. I decided to wait for dating, that first kiss, and to hold onto my purity. It wasn’t because I thought boyfriends were a sin to have. It was because I wanted to find myself [...]

What to Do When Eyes are Watching You

What to Do When Eyes are Watching You

A question that has been coming up recently is, “Are you like… an influencer?” And I can’t help but chuckle a little bit every time because that is just not how I would ever classify myself. But here is the thing. At the end of the day, we are all influencing people in some way, shape or form. If you have breath in your lungs, you are an influencer. If you woke up today, you [...]

5 THINGS I’M GLAD I KNEW WHEN I WAS SINGLE

5 THINGS I’M GLAD I KNEW WHEN I WAS SINGLE

“How do you enjoy your singleness?” “Where do I find the kind of person I’m looking for?” “How do I not feel lonely while being single” “How do I know if I should go on a date with this person?”   You probably read these and if you’re anything like me… you are like ugggghhhhhh. Because let’s be real, the single season sucks. Right? Wrong. Being single only sucks when we are focusing on the [...]